Welcome to Casa Kāma & theDaddyGuru!

"GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD.
STAY IN YOUR HEART."
~ DaddyGuru

About Casa Kāma
Casa Kāma is a "straight-friendly", nude-optional, spiritual retreat and healing center in Central Western Costa Rica focused on "holding space" for the LGTBQ+ community and specializing in the practice of (but not limited to):

◉ Tantra
◉ Intimacy + trauma healing
◉ Vibration augmentation
◉ Psilibin Healing
◉ Reiki
◉ Massage Therapy

Love & Light. Namaste.

In between retreats and programs enjoy our sanctuary away from the matrix and in the buff!

Intimacy+Trauma Healing

Intimacy healing therapy helps you reach your potential related to connection, closeness, healthy vulnerability, pleasure and reduces emotional, physical or psychological barriers relating to self-love and quality intimacy with others. Much of this is caused by unreleased childhood trauma which blocks the "kunda" (your innate feminine). $75 per hour. A normal session is normally 90 minutes to 2 hours.

Tantra Massage (Two Hand)

Tantric massage draws on the principles of Tantra, an ancient spiritual practice originating in Central/Southeast Asia. It involves massaging and stimulating the naked body with focus on cleansing, purifying, harmonizing, balancing and activating key energy channels to arouse kundalini energy which produces healing, spiritual and sometimes orgasmic effects. $75 per hour

Tantra Massage (Four Hand)

Tantric massage draws on the principles of Tantra, an ancient spiritual practice originating in Central/Southeast Asia. It involves massaging and stimulating the naked body with focus on cleansing, purifying, harmonizing, balancing and activating key energy channels to arouse kundalini energy which produces healing, spiritual and sometimes orgasmic effects. $150 per hour

Deep Tissue Massage

​Deep tissue massage is a therapeutic technique that focuses on the deeper layers of muscles and connective tissues. It employs slow, deliberate strokes and deep finger pressure to alleviate tension and chronic pain. $75 per hour

Reiki Energy Healing

Reiki is a generic Japanese work meaning Universal Life Force Energy or spiritually guided life force energy. REI - Pronounced ‘ray’ is Japanese for universal or spiritual consciousness/wisdom {God consciousness] or a higher dimension of light and the soul, knows the cause of all problems and what to do to heal them. KI - Pronounced ‘key’ is Japanese for vital life force energy that animates everything, also called Prana, Chi, etc. $75 per hour

Gay Sex Education & Counseling

DaddyGuru receives many texts and calls from men all over the world asking for information and advice regarding: Gay sex, Gay health, Gay relationships, Gay culture, Coming out, Best sex practices, Sexual etiquette, Adoption, Polyamory​, and more. $75 per hour (virtual or in-person)

John Thomsen (DaddyGuru)

Co-owner, Tantric Guru, Intimacy + Trauma Healer & Creative

John Thomsen (also known as DaddyGuru in various tribes and circles) is spiritual teacher and kundalini lightworker specializing in tantra, intimacy healing, and vibration augmentation practices. Out of the closet since 1984, he has been an LGTQ+ activist and witnessed the societal impacts of homophobia, HIV and AIDS, religious and work discrimination, marriage equality and addiction trends in the gay community over the last 40 years. He is also a survivor of physical abuse, sexual abuse, childhood abandonment and is a recovering codependent.

Robert Pisano

Co-owner, Reiki Master & Property Manager

Robert is a Level 4 Reiki master energy healer and massage therapist who can detect vibrational densities in the body and clear them. He also is the property manager of Casa Kāma: maintenance, landscaping, gardening and farmwork. He also is tantrico and during retreats he is in charge of food and accommodations.

JOHN THOMSEN
"DaddyGuru"
  • Tantrico
  • Intimacy + Trauma Healer
  • Spiritual Teacher
  • Empathic Creative
  • Pleiadian Lightworker

"RE-DISCOVER THE PLEASURE OF LOVING WHO YOU ARE."
Bio
John Thomsen (also known as DaddyGuru in various tribes and circles) is a spiritual teacher and kundalini lightworker specializing in tantra, intimacy + trauma healing, and vibration augmentation practices.  Out of the closet since 1984, he has been an LGTQ+ activist and witnessed the societal impacts of homophobia, HIV and AIDS, religious and work discrimination, marriage equality and addiction trends in the gay community over the last 40 years.  He is also a survivor of physical abuse, sexual abuse, childhood abandonment and is a recovering codependent.

John is co-owner of Casa Kāma in Quepos, Costa Rica where he conducts his practice, programs and group retreats and now is expanding his work internationally.  John is also an award-winning screenwriter and was a senior project manager in the media spanning 3 decades and was the first president of “OutCBC,” responsible for holding space, providing visibility, and ensuring equity to CBC Radio-Canada LGBTQ+ employees.
Introducing IGNITE!
...a new retreat series
Awaken your senses, open your heart, and ignite your inner fire. IGNITE is a new series of transformative international retreats by theDaddyGuru, designed to unite men through sacred Tantra, heart expansion, and ecstatic embodiment. Offered as 6-day immersions or 4-day weekend awakenings, each retreat is a journey into connection, play, and presence in some of the world’s most breathtaking destinations. ✨

Our first experience begins June 28 – July 4, 2026 on the sun-drenched shores of Brač Island, Croatia, where the Adriatic meets ancient magic.
What are Chakras?
  •  02/21/2023 01:15 AM

Definition of chakras and their functions.

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The 5 Principles (Foundations) of Tantra
  •  02/21/2023 01:15 AM

The five basic principles that support tantra.

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Let's Talk About Tantra...and what it REALLY is.
  •  02/18/2023 01:15 AM

A discussion on WHAT Tantra REALLY is.

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 "This was my first Tantric Retreat and I couldn't have made a better choice. The love, support and attention I received on this journey was life changing. From being picked up at the airport, when my flight unexpectedly arrived early, to the thought put in to meet my dietary restrictions, John (Daddy Guru) and Robert were on point! The sessions were in-depth, and enlightening without being too long or tedious. Group work, to help you get in touch with your inner child, was energizing and playful. Robert's morning smoothies/breakfast were refreshingly delicious and filling, as were his delightful, creative dinners. During my stay I took a trip into the nearby town to go shopping with Robert (a real treat), then as a group we went to a beach city for lunch and beach fun. Casa Kama is beautiful! Waking every morning to toucans, macaws, colorful butterflies, and an abundance flora & fauna was serene and set the tone for the day. I have to admit that at the end of the retreat I didn't want to leave that reality. Thank you Robert & John for makin my time with you so AMAZING!" 

Dwayne, Los Angeles
       

 "A much-needed reprieve from my life. I definitely felt like a lot of healing was done here. Tantra is not about intercourse but it does have everything to do with sexual energy and really being comfortable in your body. If you are looking for the next step in your healing journey, this is definitely for you! 💙🙏🏻" 

Aaron, Detroit
         

 “Casa Kama, a verdant jewel on the edge of the Costa Rican Rainforest, is a breath of clear air nestled just outside the daily hustle and bustle of Manuel Antonio/Quepos area (5-10 min. by vehicle). A tour de force commercialization of the area by the travel industry often overshadows our innate draw towards meaningful spiritual connections with ourselves and with others. These connections can be found here at Casa Kama.  John and Robert are superb hosts providing the tools for self-empowerment professionally and empathetically for guests to grasp and employ at their own pace. Each moment from meet and greet to, to the time of departure is focused on incorporating mindfulness, loving ones-self first, and positive daily living. If you are willing to look for answers INSIDE yourself the tools are provided. Four words: kind, genuine, generous, topnotch!   Thank you!❤️❤️❤️❤️” 

Andrew, Alaska
         

 "I had the extreme pleasure of enjoying a two day retreat at Casa Kama. They were so accommodating with my schedule and so welcoming with my needs. They worked out a sur mesure program that included Yoga, Mantras and Intimacy Healing.  I found the combination of all three were so beneficial to me at the stage of my coming out and helped me relax and get grounded.  I am not exaggerating when I say the experience changed me for the best, especially the intimacy healing with John.  I practice his teaching daily and it helps me cope with the stresses from my life and enjoy the present moment.  Finally, the beautiful location was instrumental in making this a impactful retreat. The gardens (so well maintained by Robert), the nearby tropical forest and the beautiful rooms were all amazing. The sweet fealing of a warm tropical breeze on my body after some rain and a full day of activities was incredible.  I highly recommend Casa Kama and the therapy of DaddyGuru!" 

AndréJean, Québec
         

 "We are now back in the UK after a wonderful trip to Costa Rica. We wanted to meet new people, have new experiences and see new sights - our intentions were definitely met and surpassed!.  We have been continuing to practice the breathing exercises and the 'Om gam ..' mantra every morning.   During the retreat, there was a great connection within the group, the accommodation was very comfortable, the trip to Rainmaker was amazing and I really appreciated (John) and Robert catering to our dietary requirements as well as help ensuring that we were collected from the airport and delivered safely to our hotel.   Overall I enjoyed the retreat immensely.” 

Rodney, United Kingdom
         

 "Attending this yoga retreat was a wonderful experience overall. I had the opportunity to meet new, like-minded individuals and learned a great deal about Tantra. The home we stayed in was extremely comfortable, and I always felt very well taken care of. The staff took great care in ensuring all my needs were met at all times and were incredibly attentive. One standout aspect of the retreat was the "Mush Love" portion. This was a magical experience that is difficult to put into words, and it left a lasting impression on me. In addition, the property was beautiful. I thoroughly enjoyed spending time in the garden and being surrounded by nature. Overall, this was a wonderful experience that I will carry with me for my whole life." 

Izzy, Miami
         

 “Wonderful yoga /spiritual/tantra teacher and fellow yogis. Delightful sharing, massaging, breathing, chanting, dancing; food, laughter, brotherhood.  Loved hiking and swimming at Rainmaker National Park and Playitas Beach near Manuel Antonio National Park.  Beautiful  sunrises and sunsets. Thanks John and Robert for this uplifting experience.” 

Louis, Washington DC
         

 "Casa Kama has been amazing for me.  They provided a true and genuine sacred healing space for people. John and Robert are truly great hosts. I will take what I have learned from the retreat and add it to my practice. I absolutely felt the high vibration in their property and they really keep up with the work around it.  I am glad to have chosen this retreat because we did a lot of inner child and shadow work that is typically neglected. I highly recommend Casa Kama to anyone who needs to get away from the city and just be in the moment." 

Mark, New Mexico
         

 "I spent five days participating in a one-on-one sacred mush-love tantric retreat during the last week of November 2024. From start to finish the experience was more than i could have anticipated. Right after I booked the retreat months before I was surprised and impressed with the immediate outreach from John. He was, and is, available to answer any of my questions. This includes questions about flights and accommodations to more in-depth questions about the nature of the retreat and the topics that would be covered. Being in a foreign country John also put my mind at ease regarding the accessibility and the security of my travel experience. Once I landed at the airport John was there to pick me up and we immediately began discussing what the experience would look like and what to expect. The day-to-day activities were clearly defined and also allowed time and room for independent thought and integration which I needed. the Tantric instruction and activities were enlightening and fun. Many led to more in depth conversation regarding our inner philosophies and sexuality - which I found to be very relieving and empowering. The accommodations were great, and the food was healthy, plentiful and nutritious. I found John to be very intelligent, insightful, instructive, emotionally supportive, understanding…and loving. I give this retreat, and any retreat facilitated by John, my highest recommendation." 

Keith, Utah
         

 "For years I dreamed of being part of this kind of space to get to know myself and expand my spirituality, energy and be part of a circle of men who nurture my masculine energy. This retreat confirmed that the manifestations are fulfilled, one reaches the places and people that he needs in his time to evolve. I am extremely grateful."  "The impact very strong, before and after the retreat. Very satisfied.  I went without expectations and I left full of a lot of knowledge and desire to learn more. I felt loved and supported by everyone. Everyone from somewhere became part of my pack."  "Extremely grateful for the safe space and sharing.  (A) Trans-formative self-discovery experience for me." 

FEEDBACK from Weekend Retreat Participants, May 2023
         
  • Finca Gloriana, Lote 16, Casa Kāma
  • 15 minutes from Manuel Antonio